Your 2 Biggest Sales Mistakes, Fixed!
I love sales! I love it because at its core, sales (and selling) is about building strong relationships while helping your customers solve a key problem.
When done correctly, sales will help you build long-term, profitable relationships, and you get to be the hero in one part of their business journey (I’m well aware that sales positioning is about the customer, not you, but this article is about what makes great salespeople).
However, if you’re like most business leaders, you probably don’t share my love of sales, selling, or sales professionals–yet.
According to a 2017 HubSpot survey, only 3% of people surveyed found sales professionals trustworthy.[1]
I’ll take it a step further, it’s not just that people don’t like sales professionals; they don’t like being sold, or feeling manipulated or pressured to buy something that they don’t want or need.
If you’re among the 97% of those who don’t trust (or like) sales professionals, that means that you likely will not take the time to learn the craft of selling.
As a result, your business will suffer because you need sales to grow.
I understand, no one wants to be seen as someone who is untrustworthy or manipulative.
How to Change Your Mind About Sales and Selling
Has it occurred to you that, as a business leader, you are already always selling?
I’m sure you’ll agree the days where the boss says “Jump” and the employee says, “How high?” are long-gone.
Today, you need to create buy-in from your team, your clients, your vendors, and your investors to get your business moving.
You need to cultivate leadership skills, which I’m here to tell you also means, you need great relationship building and sales skills.
Tactical Implementation of Good Salesmanship
The tactical implementation of good salesmanship involves excellent communication skills.
That said, don’t mistake excellent communication for speech-making. I’ve seen people talk themselves right out of sale for two of the following reasons:
Your Biggest Sales Mistakes Revealed
Mistake #1: Listening to Respond
Listening to respond is when you are thinking about what you are going to say next while the other person is still talking.
For example, you may be hyper-focused on listening for objections or rehearsing in your mind what you’re going to say next.
Most people do this. It’s a common habit.
The problem is when you listen with a response already in mind, you are distracted.
At best, you are only half listening, and the person with whom you are speaking knows it.
A study completed in 2018 on the power of listening, found that when participants were paired with good listeners “…(versus those paired with distracted listeners) felt less anxious, more self-aware, and reported higher clarity about their attitudes on the topics [discussed].”[2] In other words, they felt more positive towards the listener.
More importantly, distracted listening is disrespectful. It is not a way to win over a prospective client or soothe the ire of a customer who has a complaint about your company and services.
Instead, try active listening. You will greatly improve your customer (and personal) relationships.
Active listening involves:
- Genuine interest in hearing what the other person has to say.
- Making gentle eye contact.
- Mirroring their gestures and tone of voice (building rapport).
- Making encouraging sounds, such as, “mmm” or “uh huh.”
- Nodding your head “yes” at certain points to encourage the speaker to say more.
Mistake #2: Talking Too Much
This can be challenging because there is a balance between strategically positioning yourself and your company during any sales conversation, active listening, and over-talking.
That said, you do need to be aware of lecturing or diving into a monologue about your company and services.
Instead, ask leading questions:
- What is your primary pain point?
- What have you done in the past to help solve it?
- In your opinion, why didn’t those other solutions work?
Then, ask for permission:
- Is it okay if I share with you some features about our services? I think they may help you resolve… (mirror back what they told you).
By the time you get to the permission part of the discussion, not only will your customer feel validated, you’ll have a deeper understanding of their needs. It’s likely, too, that you’ll uncover some additional needs or issues.
Lastly, this process will place your customers in a reciprocal state of mind, which will allow them to hear your ideas better.
Didn’t I tell you? Sales is a beautiful thing!
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[1] https://blog.hubspot.com/sales/salespeople-perception-problem
[2] https://hbr.org/2018/05/the-power-of-listening-in-helping-people-change